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Patient for sloppy talk. [My diary]

In last year, I worked with a colleague for a work item. Our work style was that he worked according to my plan and direction.
I thought that we could have good relationship for this work at first. But, finally I found that our relationship seemed to be bad for him because he fell depressed when he know I would leave project and became sick. He took a lot of holidays after he know I would leave project. My boss planned that he took over my work. So, I prepared to hand over my work. But, his many holidays prevented my work's hand over.

I sometimes think what was my mistake about my communication to him. Of course, I know I can't understand how he felt and what occurred in him because I'm not professional and also doctor about psychology.

But, it seems to me that I might take wrong attitude when he said "I'm a low performer". He sometimes said that kinds of word. I denied his word because he is common worker. To be honest, he seemed to be not special worker in good nor bad in my point of view. And I thought he mightn't think that he is a lower performer because he always smiled when he said that kind of sloppy talk. In my point of view, he
mightn't be assumed his lower performance but he proud of his performance, skill and career because he actually might think he is good performer. I mean, he might just want attention to him even though he mightn't think that he isn't low performer.
Repeated his sloppy talk bothered me and make me irritate about communication with him. I regret that I should have stopped his sloppy talk because I could have been patient for his communication for work at least.
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Chair I bought [My diary]

I bought a chair for my room in last month. The chair is a gaming chair. Gaming chair is chair in order to continue game on the chair for a long time.
The reason why I bought this chair is to prevent lower back ache. I sometimes have lower back ache.
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